A woman has revealed how swinging became a big part of her life – despite hoping to start a family with her boyfriend one day.

According to Anonymous, who works as an account manager for a multinational corporation, the couple “meets the criteria for a successful middle class couple in their early 30s”.

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Her partner works for a major accounting firm and is demanding jobs keeps the duo busy Monday through Friday, the Cambridge graduate said.

On weekends, they tend to spend time at the apartment he has nearby Londoncooking and chilling on the couch after they’ve been back for a long time cycling trip.

The loved-up pair also hope to start a family together one day, she claimed.

However, there is another, more perverse side to the otherwise “traditional” couple.

“Because every six weeks or so, we go to anonymous house in the counties of origin to enjoy sexual encounters with strangers,” said the woman who proudly confessed that she was ”swingers”.

One such event recently began like any other, and the room was allegedly “full of smartly dressed people in their mid-20s to late 30s, most of them well-educated professionals, sipping. Taste the difference prosecco and talking about POLICY”.

The swinger had arrived dressed in a sexy cocktail dress, while the men looked smart in shirts and jackets.

”The fun usually starts when you realize that half the party is making their way upstairs – and that the women are taking off their clothes to reveal linen which would eclipse a Victoria’s Secret catwalk”, she spilled the beans about what really goes on at swinger parties.

“Women, in particular, are told that this kind of sexual experimentation is not liberating, but degrading and debilitating, that it satisfies men’s fantasies because women are hard to desire. monogamy and stability, not promiscuity”.

The woman, who said she “had a very happy childhood in her home counties” with parents which were married for nearly four decades, she had a brief relationship as a teenager.

This was followed by her second boyfriend of more than two years – but then another man entered the picture.

The new partner, named Charlie, was her boyfriend for seven years and they lived together for five years.

“When we finally broke up, everything was up in the air—where I lived, what made me happy—and how I loved.

”I was monogamous relations since I was 16, but pursuing the kind of relationship my parents enjoy—an ideal that feels impossible to emulate—had not left me happy.

“In the same year, I also had a serious gynecological examination oPERATION this had left me feeling fragile and with an enormous scar. I wanted to claim mine body and find out what made me happy.”

Desperate to find something to excite her, she downloaded Hinge and Feel it – a dating app It is aimed at those who want to pursue non-traditional relationships, such as polyamory or in three”.

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But it wasn’t just matches from singles that the young lady ended up with – there were also plenty of couples looking for threesomes who showed interest.

“Single women who want to have sex with couples are known as unicorns because they are incredibly rare and it was quite exciting to be asked.

”I dated two couples, but I found that dating made me feel lonely. Being a gooseberry on a cinema travel is bad enough – imagine how uncomfortable it can be in bed.

Luckily, Feeld is also where the woman met her current boyfriend – and after realizing they were attracted to each other outside of the bedroom too, the pair agreed to move into a monogamous relationship… “by kind of”.

Sex is an arena where I can be confident, fun, without emotion, commitment, or judgment

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“It would be loving and committed, but it would also include nights where we’re allowed to have sex with strangers, as long as we’re together,” she explained. Daily Mail.

Despite enjoying the dates, she confessed that there was a degree of jealousy when she saw her dear boyfriend “kissing and caressing another woman”.

“But for me, sex is an arena where I can be confident, fun, without emotion, commitment or judgement—and where I know I can make men tick.

“I know what gives me (and them) pleasure and gives me strength.

”Which is especially interesting for me and for the younger ones body-positive swingers is the wide range of FORMSsizes and anatomies you see at parties. Men find them all sexually desirable.

There are also strict rules to follow at kinky parties – and ensuring safe sex is non-negotiable, which means consent at all times, as well as the use of condoms and testing for sexually transmitted infections (STIs).

And the couple set their own boundaries – only swapping partners when they share the same room and pursue a match they both find attractive.

“Without clear communication and agreed upon boundaries, your relationship will have very little chance if you follow this. lifestyle.”’