In a world where uncertainty is a constant, few things are as life-changing as a cancer diagnosis. For Carolind Graham, who describes herself as compassionate, personable and trustworthy, her journey through breast cancer not only reshaped her life, it sparked a determined mission to help others. October, as Breast Cancer Awareness Month, holds special meaning for her, not only as a survivor, but as a beacon of hope for countless women navigating the same path.

Graham’s story began in 2004, when a routine mammogram revealed small, grain-like images.

“I was sure there was a problem with the slide and I thought they had to redo the test,” she said. However, the result remained unchanged, and a biopsy confirmed the unthinkable – breast cancer.

“I went completely deaf when the doctor said the words,” she said. “I couldn’t process it. Finally, I heard him suggest that since there was no lump, removing the breast was the best option.”

The decision to undergo surgery in October came with a whirlwind of emotions. Graham says her family, especially her husband, was very supportive during that difficult time. “We planned a family outing before the surgery and sat the kids down that evening to explain the situation. It was our way of minimizing the suffering.”

That day marked the beginning of a journey he never anticipated, but now looks back on as a divine calling.

Although Graham’s treatment was primarily hormone-based, requiring medication for five years, the emotional impact of losing a breast was significant.

“I was worried about losing my femininity and had to adjust to the idea of ​​wearing a prosthesis,” she admits.

Her recovery, however, became a source of empowerment. “Surviving cancer made me realize how fragile life is. It forced me to evaluate what really mattered and I came to value my family and the present moment even more.”

After her surgery, Graham’s doctor recommended she visit a Jamaica Reach to Recovery meeting, where she found solace in the stories of other survivors. “It was so reassuring to see women who had survived and looked perfectly normal,” she says. Soon after, he joined the group and gradually assumed increasing responsibilities, eventually serving as president for 11 years. She is now president of the organization.

As the leader of Jamaica Reach to Recovery, Graham has made it her mission to provide emotional and practical support to breast cancer survivors.

“Being able to guide women through recovery is deeply meaningful. I know firsthand how scary it is, but seeing survivors living normal lives gives hope.”

Her role also extends beyond one-to-one support. “We are actively involved in raising awareness, especially in secondary institutions. It’s important for women, young and old, to be familiar with their bodies and make self-examination a priority.”

Born and raised in Kingston, Graham credits her upbringing and education at St Andrew’s High School for helping to shape her character. She excelled in athletics and hockey and subsequently pursued professional development through various courses both locally and abroad. “My career journey took me from VMBS to NCR, where I grew my knowledge in programming and systems analysis, and later to Colgate Palmolive,” she reflects.

After taking a break to be a stay-at-home mum, she returned to work, taking on the challenging task of transforming Wolmer’s Boys’ School canteen to serve over 1,400 boys. Her last professional chapter was as a scholar of the Vaz Preparatory School, where her organizational skills were put to good use.

In his spare time, Graham enjoys the simplicity of nature. “I like to sit on my porch and listen to the birds and look at the mountains,” she says.

As a leader in a health-focused organization, Graham’s work is based on personal experience and a desire to inspire other women. She sees her survival as proof of what is possible with early detection and proper care.

“I think my breast cancer journey was meant to position me to help others,” she says.

Looking ahead, Graham hopes for increased access to breast cancer services in disadvantaged areas of Jamaica. “We need more mammography and radiotherapy facilities in the public health system. Early detection saves lives, but too many women cannot access the screening and treatment they need.”

As she continues to advocate for better support and resources for breast cancer survivors, Graham remains hopeful for a future where a cure is found. Until then, she is a shining example of resilience, faith, and service—living proof that life after breast cancer can be rich, fulfilling, and full of purpose.