Safe Haven’s 2024 Stronger Together Luncheon this week was a heartfelt gathering to raise awareness of domestic violence and show unwavering support for victims and survivors.

Held in October, which was proclaimed Domestic Violence Awareness Month by the Bulloch County Board of Commissioners, the luncheon brought together local leaders, law enforcement and advocates dedicated to combating the impact of domestic violence in the community.

The event opened with a warm welcome from Kim BillingsDirector of Legal Services and Public Relations Safe Haven. Billings emphasized Safe Haven’s mission: “Safe Haven’s mission is to serve, strengthen and support victims of domestic violence.”

After recognizing the Safe Haven team, Billings invited Roy ThompsonChairman of the Board of County Commissioners Bulloch, to take the stage. Thompson, a longtime supporter of Safe Haven, emphasized the critical role the organization plays in helping families throughout the county.

“This is a vital organization for Bulloch County,” Thompson said. “We must continue to support these efforts to help those in need.”

Thompson also presented the county’s official Domestic Violence Awareness Month proclamation, signed by all commissioners. The statement highlighted the widespread and devastating effects of domestic violence, calling it a violation of the privacy, dignity, security and humanity of individuals.

“Domestic violence is not limited to one group of people; it crosses all economic, racial and social barriers,” Thompson read from the proclamation. “The Bulloch County Board of Commissioners is committed to restoring the right to freedom from fear in our countries. homes and communities.” Thompson’s remarks reinforced the idea that domestic violence is a community problem that requires a community-wide response.

Next, Pastor Donald Chavers led the invocation, praying for the safety and healing of all those affected by domestic violence. He also blessed the meal, which was served as the participants continued to reflect on the serious nature of the event.

One of the most impactful moments of the luncheon came when a domestic violence survivor from Bulloch County took the stage to share her powerful testimony. The speaker revealed that he spent 16 years in an abusive relationship. Her candid account of surviving both emotional and physical abuse resonated deeply with audiences.

The survivor spoke candidly about the long-lasting effects of domestic violence and her experience with stalking after leaving her abusive relationship.

“Eighty percent of stalking cases result in homicide,” she noted. “I am one of the 20% who can give a living testimony.” Her courage in sharing her story left many attendees visibly moved, and she thanked Safe Haven for being her lifeline, comparing the organization to a “non-leading resource” that helped her escape into safety. The people present then gave him a standing ovation.

Representative Bill Hitchens followed, offering his perspective of more than 55 years of service in law enforcement and public safety. Hitchens, who has worked closely with shelters across the state, stressed the importance of supporting organizations like Safe Haven, especially as funding for domestic violence programs faces federal cuts.

“We were able to improve staffing and facilities with federal funds, but that funding has been drastically reduced,” Hitchens explained. He also noted the emotional impact that public safety work can have on those charged with assisting victims of domestic violence, thanking those in attendance for their continued commitment to the cause.

Lehman Franklin Representative added his thoughts on the challenges facing those dealing with domestic violence. He shared his pride in passing a stalking bill that gave victims more protection by reducing the number of times they would have to return to court for an extension of protective orders.

“Hearing from people who have benefited from the bill makes me feel like we’re actually making a difference,” Franklin said.

Law enforcement also played a central role in the discussions, with Chief Mike Broadhead of the Statesboro Police Department and Sheriff Noel Brown of Bulloch County offering their knowledge. Chief Broadhead emphasized that domestic violence, like other crimes based on power and control, requires men to take responsibility and stand up to the mistreatment of women.

“Men need to tell other men it’s not okay,” Broadhead said, reflecting on how abusive behaviors can be passed down through generations. “Dritters raise drinks.”

Sheriff Brown echoed Broadhead’s sentiments, stressing the importance of early intervention. “We have to stop this before it’s too far along,” Brown said, emphasizing the role that law enforcement and the judicial system play in preventing the cycle of abuse from continuing. He also thanked Safe Haven for their continued cooperation with law enforcement, particularly in obtaining temporary protection orders and providing needed resources to victims.

Concluding remarks were made by Lily GrayExecutive Director of The Teal House and Kristen Kramer from Child Advocacy Services. Both highlighted the significant overlap between domestic violence, sexual assault and child abuse, praising Safe Haven for their tireless efforts to support victims. Gray recognized the strong community partnerships that enable their organizations to work together effectively, ensuring that no victim is left without support.

“We are stronger together,” Kramer added, aligning his message with the theme of the luncheon.

As the event drew to a close, Billings encouraged attendees to visit Safe Haven’s information center and take home informational materials to share with their workplaces and communities.

“Every time we raise awareness, we create a ripple effect,” Billings concluded, echoing the luncheon’s message of collective responsibility. “Together, we can create a future where survivors and their families can thrive without violence.”

The 2024 Stronger Together luncheon left attendees with a renewed sense of purpose, highlighting the importance of advocacy, support and awareness in the fight against domestic violence. Through the combined efforts of Safe Haven, local leaders and community members, hope for a future without violence remains within reach.

Please note that Safe Haven’s Crisis Line is available 24/7 at (912) 764-4605.

Reminder: Get your tickets now for Dancing with the Statesboro Stars, the Safe Haven fundraiser!

The 14th season of “Dancing with the Statesboro Stars” is scheduled to entertain audiences on Thursday, November 21, 2024 at 6:30 p.m., with an additional performance scheduled for Sunday, November 24, 2024 at 3:00 p.m. Both events will be held at Connection Church at 1342 Cawana. Road in Statesboro, GA.