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I was in the army but now I’m a proud traditional wife – my husband pays me £78 a week I hate feminism
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I was in the army but now I’m a proud traditional wife – my husband pays me £78 a week I hate feminism

A YOUNG WOMAN who married a man 23 years her senior has revealed why she loves being a housewife – and even gets an allowance from it.

Alyssa, 28, and her husband Tom, 51, met while working at US Armybut she soon decided on another career.

Aylssa shared how she gave up work to become a traditional wife

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Aylssa shared how she gave up work to become a traditional wifeCredit: realfemsapien/instagram
Tom gives Alyssa an allowance of £78 each week in exchange for housework

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Tom gives Alyssa an allowance of £78 each week in exchange for houseworkCredit: YouTube/Truly

Once the pair got engaged, she decided to bring up the idea of ​​staying at home and taking care of the house.

In return, she gets £78 a week for keeping the house tidy and loves every minute of it.

Speaking to Truly, Alyssa, who just gave birth to their first child, said: “My husband hires me to take care of the house and I encourage other women to follow the same dynamic for themselves. future financial success.”

“I make more now married than I did when I was in the military and it’s the best job I’ve ever had. There are feminists on Reddit who hate me, most of whom are single over the age of 30,” she continued.

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In the beginning, Tom was never sure that he had a traditional relationship – where the woman stays at home, while the man is the main breadwinner.

But as time went on, he says their new relationship dynamic made them happier than ever.

Tom revealed: “Until I got into a relationship with Ali, I didn’t even know how wonderful I had been in a traditional gender-separated relationship.”

Alyssa said they made a deal that if she was a bad housewife she would go back to work, but it came naturally to her.

Now he spends his days cooked for Tom, cleaning the house and doing the laundry.

She also believes that the feminist movement was bad in every way, adding: “Men love women so much that they would have set us free after they were completely set free anyway.

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“I’m just from opinion that feminism it was completely unnecessary and that it is a movement of female supremacy”.

She adds that she not only earns more money now – who is helped by her YouTube channel, she also has her living expenses and health insurance paid by Tom.

Tom revealed that they got rid of Alyssa’s credit cards so he could use his, giving him £78 ($100) a week for entertainment and snacks.

“I can see all her purchases, she is very disciplined,” he added.

What is a professional wife?

A traditional wife (short for traditional wife) is a woman who chooses to take on an ultra-traditional role in marriage, meaning she cooks dinner and looks pretty while her husband goes to work.

The trend is inspired by the idea of ​​a 1950s housewife.

Many “traditional wives” choose to dress in the style of clothing popular during this period (think floral dresses and frumpy cardigans).

Furthermore, the values ​​considered important to commercial wives are similar to strict Christian values.

Traditional wives believed that they were not forced into this way of life and that their purpose was to be housekeepers.

The trend, which has gained attention on social media platforms such as TikTok and Instagram, glosses over a bygone era without acknowledging the economic challenges facing families and mothers today.

People who watched the video on YouTube were amazed by the couple’s dynamic, with many claiming that £78 isn’t enough to get by.

One person wrote: “The only problem with this is that she is solely dependent on him. She has no credit score or income. It’s useful to be independent as a woman.”

Another commented: “$100 a week? Maids are paid more than that!”

“So it’s basically an allowance,” wrote a third.

Meanwhile, a fourth said: “I’ve wanted this my whole life!!! The only thing I would change is the payout rate. I should have enough fun and invest in other ways in case it doesn’t last. Until death do us part, I absolutely love working for my family and hate working for and with strangers.”

“TRAD WIFE is so toxic. Feminism happened for a reason, they didn’t have choices or options or freedom. This is strange,” claimed a fifth.

Another added: “He needs to ask for a raise at some point.”

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