Dear Annie: My wife recently received a dinner invitation from her ex-brother-in-law to “talk about old times.” She plans to leave. I’ve seen them together a few times at weddings/parties and it’s obvious he has feelings for her. When I told her in the past what I had noticed, she confirmed it by saying “she already knew that because he had been sending her some romantic messages.”

I’m not a jealous guy. I trust my wife. But I think it’s inappropriate for her to leave, because she may be taking him further. what do you think — Invitation to dinner

Dear dinner invitation: What is inappropriate about her leaving is that she is a married woman and knows that this man is interested in her. Either attend dinner with her or ask her to decline the invitation.

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