Let’s face it – sex is one of those things where open communication is key, but sometimes it can be awkward to say what’s really on your mind in the moment. Either you’re focusing too much on one thing, or you’re missing the cues that signal what it really feels goodthere are a few things that men might get a little wrong during sex.

For example, you may feel that boys tend to skip prelude and go straight to the “main event” without fully warming up.

Or maybe cunnilingus is he totally left off the table, even though he expects you to be on him?

Maybe guys tend to focus on penetration rather than stimulating you in ~other~ ways, leaving you bored and less than happy.

So we ask you The BuzzFeed Community: What’s something men often get wrong or could do better in the bedroom? Time to spill the tea (or maybe just help everyone have a better time!)

Whatever you think men should improve in the bedroom, let us know below! However, if you prefer to remain anonymous, feel free to fill this out Google Form. Your answer may be used in a future BuzzFeed post!