When Sean “Diddy” Combs which was talked about his infamous partieshe said that the participation of women was one of the most important success factors. People fought to get on the guest list at Diddy’s parties, and apparently it wasn’t very easy to get through the door. A party planner who worked with Diddy claimed that women had to be under 140 pounds to attend.

Sean “Diddy” Combs allegedly wanted the women at his parties to be under a certain weight

Diddy worked with a party planner in the early 2000s. She claimed that part of her job was to make sure women entering his events they were young and thin. She kept a scale in the car to do weigh-ins if she thought it was necessary.

“We’d do a weigh-in if necessary,” said the party organizer New York Post. “The girls had to be young and hot, so I always had a scale nearby in case I needed to make sure. The number was 140 pounds, but if a girl was really tall, there was a bit of discretion involved.”

Even if women were weak enough, they were not guaranteed entry. They had to look a certain way.

“No flab, no cellulite. Not too pierced or tattooed. No short hair,” said the party organizer. “And the girls had to be young and hot.”

Also, she should have dressed according to his standards.

“No pants. No jeans. No flat shoes. Each girl had to wear a party dress, preferably very short, enough to cover her buttocks, but no longer than mid-thigh. Cleavage is showing. And every one of them had to wear stilettos. That one was no exception: high stilettos.”

Apparently they didn’t ask the ages of the participants

Although there were plenty of rules the women had to follow at his parties, they were supposed to be underage.

“It was don’t ask, don’t tell,” the party organizer said. “I was very young at the time and I honestly thought we didn’t ask their age because of the drinking laws.”

She added that she had no idea what happened at the parties until the recent allegations.

“I never stayed for Freak Offs and had no idea these girls were supposed to have sex with people.”

Sean “Diddy” Combs told how he got women to attend his parties

While talking about his parties, Diddy said that having enough women in attendance was the most important thing he could do to prepare.

“That’s what you gotta do,” Diddy continues Late Night with Conan O’Brien in 2002, per Vibe magazine. “Women. Beautiful women, of course. Handsome men for the ladies, of course… You have to give the ladies what they need too. Take care of your women. You can’t force the situation.”

He shared what he did to make sure the women stayed.

“We need alcohol,” he said. “You need water. I don’t know if guys have noticed this, but a lot of ladies drink water at parties. So if you don’t have what they need, they will leave. I have to keep them there. you need door locks… It’s a little weird, but, you know … rock with me.”

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