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Teaching, anti-bullying policies and Donald Trump
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Teaching, anti-bullying policies and Donald Trump


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I am a public high school teacher. Donald Trump continues to make my job difficult. The 45th president is a lot of things. He is insensitive, insincere and insecure. Many of us are, to varying degrees. That being said, the biggest problem I have with my fellow Queens native is that he is a bully.

I know about bullies. When I was an elementary school student at a parochial school in New York in the 1980s, I was bullied. When I got to high school, I decided I wasn’t going to be pushed around anymore, I stood up for myself and I wasn’t. Instead, I spent a short time as a bully myself, relieved that I wasn’t the one on the receiving end.

I am very familiar with the bullying playbook. Bullies tear others down. Consider Trump’s penchant for coining nicknames for those he dislikes, from Tampon Tim Walz to Horse Face Stormy Daniels. Bullies target those they perceive as weaker than themselves. Trump has shown disrespect for people with disabilities, from impersonating a Washington Post reporter with a congenital joint disorder in 2015 to recently denouncing Kamala Harris as “low IQ” and “retarded.”

Bullies could care less about the established norms of civilized society. The New York Times reports that Trump used 1,787 expletives publicly in 2024. He referred to poor, majority non-white countries as “holes.” Bullying thrives online, where it’s even easier to be stupid. On X and Truth Social, Trump sends out a constant barrage of impulsive talk and nonsense.

Bullies surround themselves with sycophants and apologists. Trump campaign spokesman Steven Cheung is doing his best Squealer the pig from “Animal Farm” to justify and debunk his boss’ latest lies. Bullies often profess admiration for other bullies; hence Trump’s kind words for Vladimir Putin, Kim Jong Un and even Hitler, who, let’s not forget, “did some good things.”

When things don’t go their way, bullies get frustrated and attack. Trump won the electoral college vote in 2016 but lost the popular vote, claiming that two million illegal immigrants voted. In 2020, his anger over losing the election led to the Stop the Steal movement and the storming of our nation’s capital. Trump has repeatedly stated that if he loses the November election, it will be because the election was not fair.

Called to account for their heinous behavior, bullies blame others. Therefore, Trump tells us: he is the victim of a “witch hunt”; that the January 6 rioters are “great patriots”; that Democrats are the “enemy within” that threatens our democracy. Ironic that Melania Trump spearheaded the Be Best anti-bullying public awareness campaign during her husband’s presidency.

Bullying can be fun for those who witness it, for those who are not on the receiving end. This helps explain some of Trump’s support.

“You would see others suffer doing good,” wrote Nietzsche, “in order to make others suffer still more.” The show of another made to feel less than it appeals to our baser instincts.

Any any of these behaviors exhibited by a student at my school would result in disciplinary action and possible expulsion; any exposure by a teacher would result in an investigation, removal from the classroom, and possibly termination of employment. All would violate my district’s anti-bullying policy.

The children in my classroom know they are safe. They are cherished. They matter. I don’t treat anyone differently because of their legal status, their front lawn sign, whether they live in subsidized housing or have parents who work on Wall Street. If we follow the norms of civilized society in the classroom—civility, politeness, avoiding profanity—we can all disagree, but still get along. We are not teaching our students anything by ignoring or normalizing Trump’s behavior.

It was very telling to me how the school district where I work handled the events of January 6, 2021. They said nothing. Nada. Zip. Compare that to the neighborhood I live in, where my the children go to school. Peekskill City Schools Superintendent David Mauricio immediately sent home a letter stating that the storming of the capitol was an attack on our democracy. He encouraged every teacher in Peekskill to discuss it in their classrooms. That’s who we are ALLEGED to do This is what it looks like to be on the right side of history.

We owe it to our students and our public education system to call out bullies and stand up to their behavior, no matter who the bully is. As popular as he is.

Tony Monchinski, Ph.D., is a high school teacher in Westchester County. His books include Education in Hope: Critical Pedagogies and an Ethic of Care.