We suffer when we lose confidence in ourselves. We begin to deteriorate when we stop connecting with the part of us that knows who we are. Self-confidence is who we are in the absence of self-judgment and criticism. High self-esteem can make someone happier and have better social relationships, according to a 2023 study. So, I learned all I could about confidence and today I am much better and share these tips with you.

Here are 6 mental tricks that the most confident people know:

1. They feed their minds with good ideas and their bodies with good food

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This is advice that few would like to hear. Processed items that we enjoy for quick gratification – both digitally (think: social media) and physically (think: candy) can be enjoyed as an occasional treat.

But, there is one kind of food that can give you a different kind of pleasure. And that joy comes from sticking to the right foods while cutting out unnecessary stimuli.

He tells me his confidence is through the roof because he chose to eat nutritious foods over “pleasure foods.” The real pleasure that most people miss is real food.

Research referred to by the Journal of Applied Research in Quality of Life shows a positive correlation between “clean eating” and increased confidence, suggesting that healthy food choices can improve self-esteem by promoting better physical and mental well-being. Studies have shown this link, especially in children, where healthy eating is associated with fewer emotional problems and higher self-esteem.

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2. Their minds aren’t always “on”

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There is nothing wrong with being left alone for weeks to sleep, dream and reflect. Free time allows you to turn up the heat at twice the intensity when the world demands it. We may not all have weeks, but we do a a lot of nothing every day could be the most productive thing you do all week.

Research published by the Journal of Psychological Science we’ve found that daydreaming and mind wandering—the inevitable effects of idleness—make us more creative, better at solving problems, and more imaginative with new ideas.

Another study from INSEAD highlights the fact that “Doing nothing is a great way to induce moods that feed our imagination. Relaxing can be the best thing we can do for our mental health. Seemingly inactive mental states can be an incubation period for future bursts of creativity.”

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3. They have their minds set on a goal or cause

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It’s difficult to confidently navigate a busy life when we don’t know what we’re ultimately fighting for. Sometimes, you are already on this path without realizing it. So it may require frequent reminding.

What do you see as a significant injustice in society? What can you do in your work and life that works toward the solution? Even if it’s in a small way, fighting a cause will flood you with confident energy as needed.

4. He keeps his mind sharp

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“It’s a good life if you don’t lose weight.When inevitable doubting thoughts arise in my mind, I must be ruthless in denying these thoughts. ‘They are just whispered thoughts.

“Don’t give in to them.” The weakness is mainly in the mind. So just for fun strengthening thoughts and by developing the ability to get more of them through the door, you become powerful by design.

A A 2023 study by the University of Cambridge was discovered that people with more severe mental health symptoms at the start of the study improved more after suppression training. However, it is important to note that cognitive distortions or unhelpful thinking habits are common and can be associated with poor mental health. Recognizing and overcoming these thinking styles is often an essential part of treatment for anxiety and depression.

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5. He inclines his mind to make bold moves

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This advice struck me because nowhere in the self-help diatribe did they say that you must first feel confident in order to take action. I think too many people live under the philosophy that you first have to “believe in yourself” and therefore feel good about leaning into bold action.

Not. Boldness does not require a feeling of confidence. Trust will be felt in the bones after the fact. Be willing to feel shy about the right actions. Your actions will creates a confident identity.

Research published in 2022 by APA’s American Psychologist consistently show that the more confident actions you take, the more confident you tend to become, highlighting the concept of “self-efficacy,” where performing tasks builds belief in your ability to do similar things in the future. This is often called a positive feedback loop, where trust is reinforced over time.

6. They don’t really think things through

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What is meant by neurosis? Overthinking – in a word. When we think about ourselves and worry about how we look and how successful we arewe are deaf to life. It’s like pulling a massive woolen glove over our heads and trying to shop in such a state.

We just end up bumping into things. So in order to live life with confidence, we must allow these critical, doubting thoughts to subside. And the way to do that is to turn our attention outward.

To notice things. To help people. To poke the box and see what happens. Only when we hit and push can we bring a fire to light.

Overthinking can undermine self-confidence and cause mental and emotional exhaustion. Overthinking can indicate a lack of self-confidence and doubt in your actions, interactions, and decision-making. An article from the UK National Health Service explained the need to identify negative beliefs about yourself and challenge them with evidence.

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Alex Mathers is a writer and coach who helps you build a personal brand that monetizes your knowledge and skills while maintaining mental toughness.