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1 in 3 adults would sign a sexual NDA to keep their fantasies secret
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1 in 3 adults would sign a sexual NDA to keep their fantasies secret

We are naked and ashamed.

95% of sexters who took part in a spicy new survey admitted to being at least somewhat kinky – while more than 60% said they were too embarrassed or worried to share their dirty desires with a partner.

The findings, presented by sexperts at dating-app Flurfound that 51% of the 2,000 survey respondents admitted that they were afraid their other half would react badly – if they knew the truth about their deepest desires.


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More than 60% of respondents to a new sex survey said they hesitate to reveal their innermost desires to a partner. motortion – stock.adobe.com

Not only that, nearly 20% said they couldn’t trust their roommate not to kiss and tell.

In fact, 37% said they would happily sign a non-disclosure agreement before starting a new relationship that would ensure their secrets stay behind closed doors – while another 43% say they are potentially interested in the idea.


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Almost 40% said they would happily sign a non-disclosure agreement before starting a new relationship to ensure their secrets stay behind closed doors. alexkoral – stock.adobe.com

“Conformities are a natural part of human sexuality – our research shows that only 5% of people say they don’t have one. However, despite their community, many are still afraid to express these desires because of concerns about judgment or rejection,” Flure’s Leah Levi said in a written statement.

“But this suppression creates emotional distance, which leads to long-term dissatisfaction. When partners feel like they can’t be completely honest with each other, trust erodes, and that lack of openness can weaken the emotional connection between them,” Levi said.

Keeping sexual secrets from an intimate partner can lead to dissatisfaction and emotional distance, experts say.

More than 40% said a lack of full disclosure had a negative impact on their relationships.

Some of the most popular doubts, according to the survey, were public sex (50% said they were excited about the idea), while 49% were curious about a threesome.

One in seven respondents admitted to having foot fetishes and an interest in cuckolding.

More than half said they were sexually unfulfilled.