Dave Grohlhis wife Jordyn Bloom is recovering from her husband’s shocking baby announcement.

A source tells PEOPLE that Blum, 48, “has had time to process everything,” nearly two months after Grohl, 55, announced he would became the father of a little girl with a woman outside the couple’s 21-year marriage.

“She doesn’t want to make rash decisions because they all affect their girls,” the source says of Blum, who shares the daughters. Violet18, Harper15, and Ophelia, 10, with Grohl. “She’s still unhappy and not wearing the wedding ring, but things have calmed down. She leans on friends.”

When Grohl revealed the news of his daughter’s birth in a statement on Instagram, he said that he and his family will “move forward together.” An insider recently told PEOPLE that the Foo Fighters rocker is no longer works with a divorce attorney and “instead hopes to work things out with his wife.”

Another source told PEOPLE that while both Grohl and Blum have been seen in recent weeks without their wedding rings, Grohl “loves his family” and is doing everything he can to keep things intact.

“Dave put his family first,” the second source said. “He knows he messed up. It’s one of those situations where you don’t realize what you’ve got until you’re about to lose it. He doesn’t want to lose his family.”

Grohl said in September that he planned to “be a loving and supportive parent” to his fourth child, but was working hard to make things right with his wife and older daughters.

“I love my wife and children and I am doing everything I can to regain their trust and earn their forgiveness,” he wrote.

Following her father’s announcement, Violet appears to have deactivated her Instagram account, although she has since reactivated it.

Grohl and Blum first met in 2001 and met by chance before parting ways. They later reunited and got married in 2003.

“I decided I didn’t want to get serious about a relationship because I was single and I was running — I was free,” he said. Teenage people in 2003. “But that was the first thing I thought about when Taylor (Hawkins) came out of (his coma): I met the woman I’m supposed to marry and have kids with and I never spoke to her again for months. She said, “You’re the last person I thought I’d ever hear from again.” And I said, “Hey, let’s go to dinner.”

Foo Fighters have no upcoming tour dates on the horizon after retiring from the Soundside Music Festival at the end of September.